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While getting wet and wild over the web can feel a little weird at first, it can be really, really hot. So with the above in mind, here a some cam sex secrets to making your experience the best it can be.
The biggest mistake people make while having cam sex is blowing the mood by showing their insecurities or inexperience and saying things like, “I don’t know what to do”, or “I’m feeling shy”. There’s nothing quite as unsexy as a lack of confidence. If you’re feeling bashful or can’t think of anything sexy to say, here’s a hint: say nothing at all, and let your body do the talking.
Cam sex is just that—sex. This means that an arousing build up of foreplay is just as important as it is during physical intercourse. Of course you need to adjust your turn on techniques accordingly (more on that later), but don’t make the experience seem unnatural or chore-like by saying things like “should we start now?” Enjoy a glass of wine together, have some banter, and fan the flames of desire with simple physical compliments and flirting.
While no substitute for the real thing, you might surprise yourself with how intense a session of cam sex could be with a little creativity. Introduce a vibrator or other toys to your cyber sessions and supply each other with arousing visuals while you experience some more-than-arousing sensations. Be sure to also use your toys to experiment with point-of-view positions and angles and communicate with one another to establish a mutual rhythm and pace.
Since cybersex stimulates your imagination, why not take advantage of the opportunity to further explore some role-playing fantasies and fetishes? Before initiating a cam session that you intend to turn frisky, slip on a sexy role play outfit under your clothes. When the timing’s right, slowly reveal your outfit and apologise you can’t be there to pick their jaw up off the floor.
While you may be unable to make a direct physical connection, the psychological preview that you share via cam sex can be out of this world. Technology has shown us that an internet connection provides a far kinkier-than-expected alternative to sex when distance is an obstacle.
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