A great resolution is something that will make you happier, healthier and a pleasure to accomplish. Which is why it is that time of the year again to make a list of all of the sexual resolutions you didn’t do last year and add them to your brand spanking new list for this year.
Yes, that’s right, you need to masturbate more, it is the best way to explore what you like. Stop with your go-to moves, try new techniques like pressure, speed, even the porn you watch. Do a bit of research and mix it up, you might just find the holy grail technique that tips you over the edge like never before.
Spend More Time On Foreplay
Foreplay often doesn’t get enough credit, not to mention time or attention. It is the perfect opportunity to explore new pleasure zones around each other’s bodies that get ignored during the main show. So not only is it fun, it helps you orgasm so make the effort to put more time into your pre-sex play.
Lube has a terrible reputation for only being for older people. Ignore it, and live by the motto ‘the wetter, the better” who’s with me? It makes sex more pleasurable, achieving orgasm easier, and with a huge variety of flavours and sensations, it just adds to the fun.
Give As Much As You Get
If you find yourself going down a lot more than you’re getting oral in return, speak up about it and ask for more. When you’re giving pleasure and not getting much in return, it can put you off doing it altogether. On the flip side, if you’re always on the receiving end, step up and get down there. Giving is just as exciting, don’t be selfish.
Stop Making Sex So Goal-oriented
Just so you know, people can still enjoy sex even if they don’t have an orgasm. Let’s stop the pressure, stop making sex a test, and just enjoy every minute of it. Because sex is great, right?
Try Something New Every Month
Make sure things stay fresh and exciting by setting yourself a challenge to try at least one new thing each month, whether it’s a new position, a new role-playing scenario, or just some fancy underwear for your partner. Let’s keep the excitement of the New Year going and give ourselves the gift of brilliant sex all year round.
What were your New Year’s resolutions? Are you still sticking to them? Let us know in the comments below.